If that story is true, it is, indeed, shameful.
And certainly the wrong way to honor a guest!
I thought it a little strange, too, but avoided the other thread about Sondheim's absence as it got too long and windy.
Even the newest member of any planning committee should have known that, much like bestowing an honorary degree at a university, the most important aspect of any special award is MAKING SURE THE GUEST OF HONOR IS AT THE PARTY!!!!
Hell, would the Tony Committee throw a wedding without the Bride and Groom??? After this week, I think they may indeed!
This might be the note they sent to Him Monday Morning:
We're sorry, Mr. Sondheim.
It won't happen at your NEXT Lifetime Achievement Awards.
We promise!
GEEZ!
"To love another person is to see the face of God!"