Yes, Jose', Rosenkavalier is an unusally gentle and melodic opera for the Germans in general and Richard Strauss in particular, so, yes, I would agree with you. But Spider probably shouldn't make any other Richard Strauss opera (Salome, Die Frau Ohne Schatten) his first.
Johann Strauss, on the other hand (no relation), wrote wonderful waltzes and comedy numbers, and his Fledermaus can a lot of fun, especially at holiday time, when they have special surprise guests in the second-act party scene.
And Cookie--I was never a German opera fan until last year, when Mark asked if we could get a subscription that included the entire Ring cycle. I agreed, because I wanted to have the theatrical experience of sitting through 4 long, LONG operas, filled with fat ladies singing about love and death.
Well, they WERE long, and the ladies WERE fat (Jane Eaglen and Deborah Voight), but they had thrilling voices and so did the men (James Morris and Placido Domingo).
You could probably handle the Salome--and if Karita Mattila is playing the title role, RUN! It's rare that you see a performance of such Meryl Streep-like quality from an opera singer with a gorgeous voice who is actually attractive enough to take off her clothes during the Dance of the Seven Veils.
We're seeing two obscure operas this weekend as part of this years's over-the-top subscription: Karita Mattila in Janacek's Kát'a Kabanová on Friday (I can't even pronounce it!) and Renee Fleming in Handel's Rodelinda on Saturday.