Ashley has a thing for k.d. lang:
She rifles through her CDs, pulling out the one by k.d. lang. "She was my first same-gender crush," Judd says of lang. "I was 18. I loved her. It was so mixed with admiration and awe. I know we're going to see her at some point, and I've alerady told Dario, 'I'm going to kiss her on the mouth.' I once made her a clover chain. That's fairly pitiful, but sincere nontheless."
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"The gods who nurse this universe think little of mortals' cares. They sit in crowds on exclusive clouds and laugh at our love affairs. I might have had a real romance if they'd given me a chance. I loved him, but he didn't love me. I wanted him, but he didn't want me. Then the gods had a spree and indulged in another whim. Now he loves me, but I don't love him." - Cole Porter