Best way to ask someone out?-NEED HELP!!!

[gustof777]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 7:23pm

hey guys
i know that you all are the only ones that i can turn to you because i know that you have really good opinions on things...but there's this girl that i really really like and i have liked her for about a month now and i thought that she liked me but i didn't know but just today i found out that she does like me and so now im like all freaked out because i know that i can ask her out and i want to more than anything in the world and it's not that i'm scared to ....just nervous i have gone out with other girls its just that they have asked me or we just kind of started dating and never really went officailly we just casually accepted we were going out...but this girl is different she's never been with a guy before and i know that i need to ask her and i will i just need to know how well i have an idea but i was wondering what you guys reccomend. Sorry if i went all middle school or something on you im 17 but stil i just was wondering if you guys could help me out...thanks

[luvtheEmcee]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 7:27pm

Whoa. First of all, take a deep breath. If your speech is anywhere near like that first REALLY long sentence you posted, you're going to pass out!

Just make sure you're calm about it - don't let her see your nerves. Take it slowly... I take it you're friends with her, so just see if she wants to hang out or something, and see where things go. Don't come right out and go all "I've like you for so long!!" on her.

[shira467]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 7:29pm

Awww -- it's just too cute for words!

Good luck! (I have no advice and have resigned myself to living in an apartment with 3 dogs and no cats).

[ashley0139]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 7:31pm

I understand why you're nervous, but if you know she likes you, then that should make it easier. Then you pretty much know she will say yes. Better to go into it that way then to go into it having no idea whether she likes you or not.

Oh- and good luck!

Updated On: 5/11/05 at 07:31 PM

[gustof777]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 7:49pm

aww thanks you guys...i know she likes me so i really am trying to keep that in mind and i'll be calm but usually when i try to be calm i act really really non chalant and i want this to be sincere i dont thanks soo much for your help everybody

[renthead2005z]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 8:57pm

i am sure it will be great!

[Taryn]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 9:36pm

Don't worry TOO much about looking nervous--as long as you're not having a breakdown, there's nothing wrong with looking a little nervous. That just says that you really care about whether she'll say yes, which is certainly a compliment.

[One Song Glory]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 9:45pm

I'd really love to help you but I have no advice on asking people put at the moment but tell us if you're sucsessful on it. Good Luck!

[aliceripleysnumber1]

Posted: 5/11/05 at 10:13pm

awwww....I love it, it's so cute! It sounds like you two are already good friends and probably talk to each other quite a bit. When you two are talking sometime, just say in passing...we should catch a movie sometime (or whatever you're thinking) and see what her reaction is...just play it relaxed...have fun with it! Good luck with it!!