#7076
Posted: 1/19/05 at 1:15am
I usually try to stay out of the drama on here. It's easier that way. But everyone has their limits.
Seriously- no one ASKED you to share your problem. And I know that's going to come off as bitchy. I don't mean it that way, truly. What I mean is, you determine how much detail you go into on here. Similarly, you can only expect people to be helpful at a level relative to what you share.
Example: If I say I'm in a bad mood, but divulge nothing other than that, all I can really expect in return is "oh, I'm sorry. I hope you feel better." I can't expect people to give accurate advice without giving them some sort of proper context.
YOU determine how much detail you go into on here. If you don't want to get into it, DON'T it's plain and simple. Don't tell people things halfway, and then bitch at them for not telling you what you want to hear. If you want the best advice, give the full story. If you just want sympathy, tell everyone you're in a bad mood and leave it at that.
Seriously- no one ASKED you to share your problem. And I know that's going to come off as bitchy. I don't mean it that way, truly. What I mean is, you determine how much detail you go into on here. Similarly, you can only expect people to be helpful at a level relative to what you share.
Example: If I say I'm in a bad mood, but divulge nothing other than that, all I can really expect in return is "oh, I'm sorry. I hope you feel better." I can't expect people to give accurate advice without giving them some sort of proper context.
YOU determine how much detail you go into on here. If you don't want to get into it, DON'T it's plain and simple. Don't tell people things halfway, and then bitch at them for not telling you what you want to hear. If you want the best advice, give the full story. If you just want sympathy, tell everyone you're in a bad mood and leave it at that.
AKA Idina Pashmina
Type_A_Tiff: There's nothing hard about her. Broadway_star_tomorrow: Yeah. Her arteries.
Type_A_Tiff: There's nothing hard about her. Broadway_star_tomorrow: Yeah. Her arteries.