Frustrated? So Am I

[DefyingEDCT]

Posted: 1/4/06 at 3:37am

So Ive been going through some fustrating times in my life right now, and im assuming most of you have gone through or are going through furstrating trimes too, This is a thread where you can just post about the problems that are going on in your life right now, No one needs to reply to peoples, but you can if you want, Its just a place to vent your fustration because sometimes thats what people need, is just a place to vent. And well here it is.

The thing that im most fustrated about is, a certian guy in particular has just been pulling at my strings for a while now, We dated for about 2 or so weeks, barely knew each other but dated. He ended it. We still are friends and better ones now actually, The problem is I still like him. As of lately he has told me he likes me too. But he doesnt want any type of relationship because of certian problems that he needs to figure out in his life. These problems I have no idea what they are. Ontop of that he will lead me on. There have been so many tiems where he has kissed me or held my hand. Sending me so many mixed emotions. Ive lost so much sleep over this crap its just kinda pissing me off. Ontop of that, I can truly say that this is the firs guy I have ever loved. Hes like no other. It hurts to be away, and it hurts to be close. And I can only hold on for so much longer.


Updated On: 1/4/06 at 03:37 AM

[RachLaura]

Posted: 1/4/06 at 6:48am

i know this is just a place to vent, but i just wanted to give some advice

first of all, i think you should stop the hand holding, stop the kissing, stop everything that crosses the line into a relationship and for right now be strictly friends. if he's as amazing as you say he is, you will be satisfied just being around him and hanging out. let him work out his issues, because it's clear that if he's telling you one thing, yet leading you on, there is something going on. this person probably isn't trying to lead you on, i don't know but he doesn't sound like a bad guy and if you love him i'm sure he's not but he obviosuly has feelings for you...the other stuff going on in his life are having quite a hold on his emotion and pulling him back from whatever you two may have. if you care about him, be friends for now, hope that he opens up to you about the other things in his life because they are obviously having a huge effect on him. hopefully when he works these things out, or opens up to you, you guys can be able to take it to the next level. until then, take the time to get to know him more and just be thankful that although you may not have him as your life as a partner yet, you have met someone who you love and who you find amazing...that's a gift all in itself

second- i hope everything works out!! i know it will Updated On: 1/4/06 at 06:48 AM