I Am Moving To San Francisco

Well, you won't die for a while, right?

I intend to be around for a long time. She lives near Palo Alto and that and that is where her synagogue has a cemetery in San Fran. I just found the whole thing to be a bit strange. She wouldn't dare help me out with anything in life.

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But honey, you reported having no money for food the other day. I think somebody arranging to take care of "final expenses" is actually rather sweet.

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Well how appropriate, didn’t Kushner use San Francisco as a metaphor for heaven? You might want to visit before you kick off. It is a beautiful city.
Maybe you could stay with The Beave!

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Updated On: 2/18/05 at 02:06 AM

Hey there Namo,
I love your new icon. Have any idea what lipstick your icon is wearing. I love it.

Wait Corine. I actually get your logic in bringing lipstick into this conversation.

For those not well versed on CorineLogic (or C-Lo) let me explain:

1. The post was about a mother buying a burial plot
2. The mother-daughter relationship is strained
3. Corine wants both of them to reconcile and make up
4. Make up = lipstick

Well, not to get all Dr. Phil/Tough Lovin' on your meatloaf dropping behind, but girlfriend, you have two choices: You can either learn to forgive your mother for her past failings and accept her for who she is (your one and only mother) and decide that her manipulations are not going to bother you any more OR decide that she is too toxic a presence in your life and, since she does nothing to help you out and never has, completely cut off contact from her.

You can EITHER have her in your life and ignore the manipulation OR get her out of your life. But you can't have her in your life AND complain about it for the rest of yours. You are a GROWN UP now.

Hugz.

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I didn't sense any disrespect. I think Namo recited the same old advice of the dearly departed Dear Abby. In each adult relationship we have to determine if we're better off with someone in our life or without them.

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