What you're seeing is the victim mentality on steroids. It's political correctness blown out of proportion.
Why should everyone be required to provide "safe spaces" for other people? In the future, will businesses have to provide safe spaces with coloring books and bubbles when an employee can't handle stress on the job?
Rape is a very serious thing, and counseling should be made available for as long as the person feels they need it. But, as we saw with Lena Dunham, using the rape as a tool to control other people is wrong.
If anyone ever tells you that you put too much Parmesan cheese on your pasta, stop talking to them. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life.