Is That You In Your Avatar? NINE to five(000) Rated R - take 2- Page 6

[D2]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 8:58pm

God no, middi! I don't make fun of people. Well, fangirls and Stagey sometimes, but other than that, no!

I'm making fun of myself. I've been bugging Taz all week to take some time off and take care of himself, that's all.

Posted: 8/9/07 at 8:59pm

He should, if he's still sick! Poor Tazzy!






Ooh, I got my chicken showing pictures, finally! Sweet!

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 8:59pm

Why can't you treat me with the respect to which I'm entitled?

[tazber]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:00pm

SM sprung fully grown from a pod Deet, I thought you knew that.

Middy, just be patient with the boy. I know you know he's got to be under tremendous stress.

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:02pm

Because I still don't know what I'm supposed to call you!

[tazber]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:03pm

I have a few ideas DGG

[midnghtdolphin]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:05pm

i know tazzy, but it seems like he's still mad/upset with me from the conversation before... and like he's not willing to try, but if i im him first, then he'll talk to me, but he won't call me... he's being such a typical guy! cause i know he doesn't even realize that it's making me mad.

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:06pm

He won't call you? Dump him. You don't need people like that.

[tazber]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:08pm

well, that was left unresolved. I wouldn't suggest getting into it again via im though.
Maybe a nice "I love you. Whatever we need to deal with, we will deal with when you get home. But just know that I miss you and love you" type of message.
Make him feel a little bad for not communicating, ya' know?

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:10pm

*hugs Middy*


That's about all I can offer...sorry doll.

[midnghtdolphin]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:11pm

stagey... it's only been in the last week that he won't. and he's still in iraq... i do know that he can't call me all the time, and that a lot of the time he gets online to check his email and then goes right to bed.

tried that tazzy. it was more like not getting into it over the phone again. and i know a huge part of it is that we haven't seen each other since march. but i was sent him an im today that he'll get whenever he signs on that said something to the effect of are you gonna stay mad at me forever? cause it really suCks how things are right now with us. that was all. cause if he's never gonna get over it then... what's the point? and i have every right to be just as upset as him.

[D2]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:12pm

That's excellent advice, Taz!

[D2]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:13pm

And as usual, my timing sUcks.

[tazber]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:14pm

Oh you have ABSOLUTELY every right to be upset. He's acting like the world revolves around him and your feelings don't matter. I empathize completely.
I'm just saying that right now it is so strained with the distance and the stress of just being in a war zone. You could both say things that you'll regret.
Bottom line - it's not productive to make any big decisions until you are face to face.

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:15pm

*hugs Deet*

You meant well.


Updated On: 8/14/07 at 09:15 PM

[midnghtdolphin]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:23pm

oh, i know tazzy. i'm just trying to make it *somewhat* better at the moment. and like, he knows that. cause i said that i felt like i was nagging him everytime i'd im him to say hi and he was like you're not. don't worry, i'll let you know when you are. and i said something about getting a second job, so he's like, great, so even LESS time for me to talk to you. so like... i'm almost positive that he still does want to talk to me... he's just being a complete butthead.

thanks dgg. hugs are good.


*eta* i'm sorry that i always vent to you guys, but it makes me not vent at him.
Updated On: 8/9/07 at 09:23 PM

[tazber]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:31pm

vent all you want Middy. It's fine

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:34pm

I'm all ears...eyes...whatever. Vent away! We all do it!

[harris007]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:35pm

DGG

there were cows in those pics =)


*the cows bring extra big banana milkshake to middi*


*the roo and elephant tuck tazzy in bed so he'll get better*

[midnghtdolphin]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:36pm

the fact that he's home soon just makes it worse... it's like... we've been fine this long and now when the end is in sight... we're gonna fight?

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:37pm

Harris- Yup! I show 11 species of animal, with cows being my favorite, after chickens.

[D2]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:39pm

*offers middi a very broad shoulder to lean on, and cry if she needs to*

[midnghtdolphin]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:41pm

thanks deet. i appreciate it. i'm trying not to overanalyze everything, but it's hard.

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:46pm

*more hugs and a cup of tea*

Don't cry, love! It's going to be OK.

[midnghtdolphin]

Posted: 8/9/07 at 9:47pm

i know. it'll work itself out one way or another. i just can't help thinking about it.