"In your darkest hour, sometimes humor can be your one saving grace"
I think that applies only to those who are close to the deceased and are feeling a personal loss. I would bet that not one person on this baord was a family member or close friend to Ray Charles and therefore cannot use the "humor to relieve pain and grief" defense. We can all sincerely say it's a sad loss that Mr Charles has passed on because he was a great entertainer and contributed much to the world of music. However, I doubt that anyone here can honestly claim it is their darkest hour.
It was a very distasteful joke and perhaps the person posting didn't think of that. It would now be a getsure of maturity if the poster cleared the message from the board.
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