Still no Addy?

Girl; I have a delicious Mojito waiting . Come n honey.. it is time for a comeback.

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What makes you say that? I belive she might not be posting but she might be reading. And I just wanted to make sure she knew that I want to take her for a mojito when she is in Los Angeles next week.

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So what? Is that the reason she left? Addy come back. You will always have this Dames protection!

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It was some tiny bully who was too cowardly to take on anyone who deserved to be taken on. Ridiculous.

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Dame, I don't think I ever had an online interaction with NYAdgal even once. After the first couple of pages I never even looked at the first adult smoking thread, which is, I think where she became beloved by many, some of whom have met her in real true life and vouch for her fabulosity. Including many people *I* love from interactions in other threads, so if she's fab enough for them, then she's probably really fab.

But the poor kid. I have this vision of her checking in and reading the myriad "come out, come out wherever you are" threads and feeling not unlike the way Idina must feel when she hears about performing arts camp children PRAYING to her before a performance.

If she has checked in at all, she must know that people want her to come back. If she hasn't, she's taking a real break. Breaks are sometimes just the perfect tonic.

Personally, I'm sorry that there was a link established in the online collective imagination between the exits of she and Matt (but not Princeton, why am I the only one who cares about Princeton?!?), but that's the way the threads developed.

I'm a firm believer of letting people leave when they need to, and letting (most) of them know they'll be welcomed back if and when they want or need to do that, too. (Gosh, that's sort of like Harvey Fierstein's dedication at the beginning of The International Stud from Torch Song Trilogy!)

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Addy's gone too?!!!
WTF is going on around here?

i've been busy attending to my "non-cyber" life my friend.

in other words: i have been doing other things such as working, spending time with friends and loved ones, going to movies, going out to dinner, shopping, etc. REAL LIFE..try it, you'll like it.

another addy fan here. My "real" life has been crazy as of late. Now that I finally have some time to be back here among some wonderful people, only to find out that a truly lovely lady is no longer here. Makes me quite sad. Addy if you are readinding this I MISS YOU!!

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We need Addy, Dame, and Matt back. This board definitely drags in their absence.

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Corine you can't leave. You are a institution here.

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Oh, Addy. Please come back.

Don't let a few inmates ruin the whole asylum.

Chocolate ice cream with sprinkles will not be the same without you.

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