The Gay community is so racist! — Page 2

Taz, honey, I dunno what to tell you. You need to get a thicker skin. There are racist assholes out there and you can't allow your self worth to be affected by their narrow mindedness just because they have impressive BMIs. If it's not the "no offense, but I'm not into..." crowd, it's the back-handed compliment crowd. Every other day I get a message like "I'm not usually into Indian guys, but you're cute..."

Also, I've noticed you see a hell of a lot less of this **** on SCRUFF - generally seems to attract a higher caliber of gentlemen callers. At least in the places I prowl. But, there's no escape from this ****. Yeah, it's ugly and it's prevalent and it sucks, but at least you know who to avoid. Now dry your tears, drink your protein shake, get to the gym and get those squats in, and get those jockstrap selfies up online.

"But if we look at it at that angle, why would someone care what color the other guy was if they just wanted a one night stand?"

I agree. If I see one more Craigslist ad where the poster claims to be blindfolded and facedown on his bed and his door is unlocked and he wants strangers to come in and have their way with him and then he describes what the people should look like, I get all, whaaaa? Huhhhhhhh? What do you care how tall the guys are? What color they are?

I think we can all agree that people's fantasies are pretty limited.

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That actually reminds me of a message some guy wrote me. He wanted me to come into his house with boxing gloves and beat him up and punch him in the gut. He said gut punching was a fetish of his. He just wanted me to do that and then leave. HAHA. Takes all types I guess.

Oh, you knew Arthur Laurents as well?

Apparently, Namo. While I'm not into that type of play and turned down his offer, I did appreciate the sheer awesomeness (maybe that's a bad word to explain what I'm trying to say) of it. But while we are on the subject, I have started to really find it interesting how many different ways there are to "be together" with another person. There's just so many different directions you can take. Clubs are even designed for stuff like that now. It's it's own world and I think that is pretty cool.

A friend tells this story against himself. He is large of body, loves erotic massages and contacted a masseur of a different race when he was in NYcity. My friend knocked on his door-it was opened-the masseur yelled at him--'I said NO FATTIES' and slammed the door in his face.
I couldn't eat my bikkies [cookies]for laughing.

I had a very long day at work, and I took off my glasses, and had a little bit of wine, so everything is a little blurry... I SO thought that was Douchesses of Grindr, which somehow made sense. Now I see that its Douchebags of Grindr. I'm just gonna go with it.

I like Duchesses of Grindr better. Not quite Queens.