Would you be able marry a gay man whom you loved either as a friend or otherwise, have kids with him and be happy?
If I loved him as a friend, absolutely without a doubt I think it could be one of the most fulfilling things of a person's life.
If I loved him in a romantic kind of way, no. I don't think I'd be able to handle living in a relationship with someone I love in that way and knowing there's not a shot in hell.
...of course I'm 20 and not getting married anytime soon.
But I do love me some gay men. woohoo!
And hang on, when did you win the discus?