If it makes you feel any better, Catherine ZJ was on ET last night with Zorro 2, and was looking might fine!
I agree with plum - we have our "groups", but I don't think we're "cliquey" in the sense that most groups are more than willing to embrace newbies. I'm older and at a difference place than most of the people in the threads I frequent on the OT board, but it's nice playing the big sister, even if I can't relate to a lot of what they go through.
"It's not always about you!!!" (But if you think I'm referring to you anyway, then I probably am.)
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