What's more important...

[Phantom2]

What's more important...#0

Posted: 8/22/04 at 12:39am

Looks, brains, wallet or heart?

Discuss.

"I'm learning to dig deep down inside and find the truth within myself and put that out. I think what we identify with in popular music more than anything else is when someone just shares a truth that we can relate to. That's what I'm searching for in my music." - Ron Bohmer

"I broke the boundaries. It wasn't cool to be in plays- especially if you were in sports & I was in both." - Ashton Kutcher

[LadyGuenevere]

re: What's more important...#1

Posted: 8/22/04 at 12:42am

It's definitely brains. While looks get me hooked on a guy, if I were to get married or be in a long-term relationship- it couldn't be anyone who is intellectually stupid. I'd go mad.

It was a tough one between brains and wallet, though. Updated On: 8/22/04 at 12:42 AM

[Matt_G]

re: What's more important...#2

Posted: 8/22/04 at 12:44am

I have a feeling we're gonna get some complete B.S. answers here.
But I go with none of the above. Humor is the most important thing to me. Combine that with a good heart and I'm all yours!

"Noah, someday we'll talk again. But there's things we'll never say. That sorrow deep inside you. It inside me, too. And it never go away. You be okay. You'll learn how to lose things..."

Updated On: 8/22/04 at 12:44 AM

[Phantom2]

re: What's more important...#3

Posted: 8/22/04 at 12:48am

Spoken like a true politician.

"I'm learning to dig deep down inside and find the truth within myself and put that out. I think what we identify with in popular music more than anything else is when someone just shares a truth that we can relate to. That's what I'm searching for in my music." - Ron Bohmer

"I broke the boundaries. It wasn't cool to be in plays- especially if you were in sports & I was in both." - Ashton Kutcher

[Millie42]

re: What's more important...#4

Posted: 8/22/04 at 12:49am

Let's be honest. In many cases looks are most important for INITIAL attraction, but brains or heart can make a person attractive that you might not originally have considered "hot."
I think its a tie between brains and heart. I need someone that challenges me and is caring.

"My friends have made the story of my life." -Helen Keller

[Matt_G]

re: What's more important...#5

Posted: 8/22/04 at 12:50am

politician?!?! LOL. You know gays can't be in politics!

"Noah, someday we'll talk again. But there's things we'll never say. That sorrow deep inside you. It inside me, too. And it never go away. You be okay. You'll learn how to lose things..."

[aspiringguy715]

re: What's more important...#6

Posted: 8/22/04 at 12:55am

I need a big heart. It's a must. A goodhearted companion almost sets everything in stone. I'd say that looks are big when it comes to initial impression, but everything builds up from there, so that's why it's towards the bottom of my list.

1. Heart
2. Humor
3. Brains
4. Looks
5. Wallet

I added humor because it's a must.

[BlueWizard]

re: What's more important...#7

Posted: 8/22/04 at 1:28am

Heart - I'm a romantic, and demand flowers.

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[CJR]

re: What's more important...#8

Posted: 8/22/04 at 2:40am

Heart is most important to me. I need to have a sensitive and caring man... He needs to be romantic and sensual and all those wonderful things, but still be tough and rugged...

Of course, the other things on the list are important to me as well....

What can I say? I want it all

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[bythesword84]

re: What's more important...#9

Posted: 8/22/04 at 2:44am

Brains is my first thing, but I think that's because I'm generally attracted to men who I feel are more intelligent then I am.

And hang on, when did you win the discus?

[boborunstheshow]

re: What's more important...#10

Posted: 8/22/04 at 2:49am

sense of humor. If a girl can't see the humor in life, we would not get along for very long

wallet too. I always like a stylish wallet.

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[Mamie]

re: What's more important...#11

Posted: 8/22/04 at 3:46am

The other two options are kind of silly. Everybody knows that w ith a big wallet you can BUY the looks!

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[Rathnait62]

re: What's more important...#12

Posted: 8/22/04 at 2:55pm

Wallet. At the age I've reached, I realize that you can have friends for humor, brains and heart. You don't need your partner to have those things. But it is important to be able to have an enjoyable life without worrying about money if at all possible.

Have I ever shown you my Shattered Dreams box? It's in my Disappointment Closet. - Marge Simpson

[Unknown User]

re: What's more important...#13

Posted: 8/22/04 at 3:20pm

Potential.....

[ponine24601]

re: What's more important...#14

Posted: 8/22/04 at 4:45pm

hm....it's a toss up between brains and heart.

"People asking questions, lost in confusion. Well I tell them there's no problems, only solutions." ~The one and only John Lennon

[SammyGal]

re: What's more important...#15

Posted: 8/22/04 at 4:59pm

See I find nerdy boys attractive so "looks" really aren't of much importance in reality since no one else thinks they're cute lol

Humor and brains. and a lot of caring!!
I look for their political views too since that's something really important to me. I don't go for Republicans :)

On a clear day I can see myself for miles ~Taboo

[glitzguy3]

re: What's more important...#16

Posted: 8/22/04 at 5:51pm

for a relationship? heart, humor and brain

for a good time? looks and wallet!!!!!!

[EddieVarley]

re: What's more important...#17

Posted: 8/22/04 at 7:45pm

Hmmmmm, I would agree with glitzguy3, in the long run I would say loyalty is most important.

[Corine2]

re: What's more important...#18

Posted: 8/22/04 at 10:55pm

Humor-
The guy needs to be straight-
A mind like Musto (His humor- the man just kills me)
A brain like Musto
A heart like Tom Hanks(Jeff Marx also has a giant heart)
Looks means nothing to me. Humor and heart is what I seek.
But if he is hairy he must shave. I have a phobia, I can't stand back hair.
Updated On: 8/22/04 at 10:55 PM

[Rathnait62]

re: What's more important...#19

Posted: 8/22/04 at 10:57pm

Then looks obviously mean SOMETHING to you.

Have I ever shown you my Shattered Dreams box? It's in my Disappointment Closet. - Marge Simpson

[Corine2]

re: What's more important...#20

Posted: 8/22/04 at 10:59pm

I would take a hairy man with humor and shave him!
I have done it before!

[Phantom2]

re: What's more important...#21

Posted: 8/22/04 at 11:30pm

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

"I'm learning to dig deep down inside and find the truth within myself and put that out. I think what we identify with in popular music more than anything else is when someone just shares a truth that we can relate to. That's what I'm searching for in my music." - Ron Bohmer

"I broke the boundaries. It wasn't cool to be in plays- especially if you were in sports & I was in both." - Ashton Kutcher

[spiderdj82]

re: What's more important...#22

Posted: 8/22/04 at 11:40pm

1. Heart
2. A great smile
3. Has to make me laugh
4. Has to make me feel appreciated
5. Brains
6. looks
7. Wallet

"They're eating her and then they're going to eat me. OH MY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD!!!!" -Troll 2

[Phantom2]

re: What's more important...#23

Posted: 8/22/04 at 11:41pm

"I'm learning to dig deep down inside and find the truth within myself and put that out. I think what we identify with in popular music more than anything else is when someone just shares a truth that we can relate to. That's what I'm searching for in my music." - Ron Bohmer

"I broke the boundaries. It wasn't cool to be in plays- especially if you were in sports & I was in both." - Ashton Kutcher

[jrb_actor]

re: What's more important...#24

Posted: 8/22/04 at 11:43pm

Does there have to be money in the wallet?

I have a metro card. Is that good for anything? A Starbucks gift certificate?

Loyalty and Honesty are most important to me. After that, Humor and Heart.

Then, **** size. (Just kidding)

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