Tater tots and white rice. Wow. You should write a book on that.
I'm sorry to sound snarky, but I know that I and most people I know need structure to succeed. Aimlessly avoiding foods is a recipe for disaster.
It's awesome that you have lost 40 pounds with an abstract game plan, but it's not likely that most people can do that--simply eat less, move more. I need to know what kinds of exercises will help me--and for how long, etc. I need to know how much of what foods in balance with each other over the course of a day and a week I can eat.
And WW is the only way I have ever gotten "All of the Above" in this matter.
Your comment about tater tots and white rice is the basis of most diets. And those diets will smartly tell you to choose sweet potatoes and brown rice instead. But how much? Moderation? What's moderation? 1/2 cup of brown rice? 1 cup of brown rice? 2 cups? 1/4 cup?
What do I do if my ONLY option is white rice?? Do I freak out? Do I abstain and be hungry? Do I eat some and feel guilty? What if tater tots are my favorite food of all time? I don't eat ANY tater tots for 3 months. But then, I break down and eat the whole bag and well I've already screwed that up so tomorrow I might as well eat some tater tots and maybe Friday nite I'll eat another bag of tater tots and oh well I'm fat again.....
Do you get a hint of what I mean here?
WW allows you to eat ANYTHING and lets you figure out how much you can afford to eat and to take responsibility for what you eat. Therefore, if I have plenty of weekly points, I can eat piece of cake and not feel one ounce of guilt--because I know "it's all good"---it's budgeted. I can go have a few beers and not feel guilty. I prefer to eat brown rice, cuz it's tastier, healthier, and less points, but if I run into a white rice situation--"it's all good"--I can budget it.