CATSNY I'm sorry.

Happy holidays huh? I'm also sorry that 72 percent of all mothers go nuts around the holiday. She sounds like mine.
Mother: "I'm going to go put the lights up."
Me: "Need any help?"
Mother: "No. No one ever helps, I've learned to do things myself."
*15 minutes later*
Mother: "I have to do everything myself! Couldn't someone just give me a hand for one **** minute?!"
Me: "I asked you and you said-"
Mother: "Forget it! Just forget it!"
?? I don't know. Plus my entire family manages to get in a huge fight every Christmas eve. It must be all the stress. Ah well, I love 'em anyway.
If you limit your choices to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is a compromise."- Robert Fritz