"or that by telling Jonathan Groff that they love him, they will become engaged."
Wait, you mean we're not engaged? Time to throw out all these bridal magazines.
But seriously, I have no problem with going to the stage door if you're an adult as long as you act like one. I've said in the past that I tend to only go to the stage door when I know someone in the cast but, like many of you, there are actors that I'd like to meet. So I do it for them on occasion. But there are many shows I've never staged door for.
"All our dreams can come true -- if we have the courage to pursue them." -- Walt Disney
We must have different Gods. My God said "do to others what you would have them do to you". Your God seems to have said "My Way or the Highway".