I saw a very early preview of DOTV (I think it was preview number 3) with an Austrian friend of mine who had seen Tanz Der Vampir and thought it was good but not great and said "I bet if they've brought it over here, they'll have made it so much better".
Well, by the time we got to intermission she was almost apoplectic with rage and by the end I was having to physically restrain her from charging the stage and bitch slapping Michael Crawford.
Nothing precious, plain to see, don't make a fuss over me. Not loud, not soft, but somewhere inbetween. Say sorry, just let it be the word you mean.