Although this is only an opinion, I must say that I disagree with what Namo and others have said. Wanting the company of others with similar interests is completely natural, especially when you have a passion for those interests. It's not about having a "pity party" or needing attention, its about finding a group of people who, not only accept one another, but feed off of each other's excitment. Everyone should have that kind of support system.
StageManager, don't start to feel guilty about feeling the way you do. There are many many like you and it'll be so awesome when you find them. Expanding your interests is always wonderful, but don't do it in order to fit in better with others.
"Wickedness is a term invented by society to account for the curious attractivness of others." -Oscar Wilde