#26
Posted: 9/16/04 at 2:26pm
Redhot is certainly entitled to her opinion but the fact is I've worked with too many actors who have been wrecked by bad "advice" and have lost all confidence, spontaneity and joy in performance due to the destructive and negative prohibitions/"rules" laid down by acting teachers and schools.
To call AS LONG AS HE NEEDS ME strictly a number about co-dependency shows the true lack of imagination. For example, the number easily lends itself to a circumstance where a woman, married to a man accused of a crime, decides to stand by her man, despite the advice of well-meaning friends. Why? Because she believes he's innocent. Hardly co-dependent behavior but rather a high-stakes situation. I would hope my partner would choose to do the same for me if I ever found myself in such a situation, wouldn't you?
As long as he needs me
I know where I must be
I'll cling on steadfastly
As long as he needs me.
AS long as life is long
I'll love him right or wrong
And somehow I'll be strong
As long as he needs me
If you are lonely,
Then you will know
When someone needs you
You love them so.
I won't betray his trust
Though people say I must
I've got to stay true just
As long as he needs me.
To call AS LONG AS HE NEEDS ME strictly a number about co-dependency shows the true lack of imagination. For example, the number easily lends itself to a circumstance where a woman, married to a man accused of a crime, decides to stand by her man, despite the advice of well-meaning friends. Why? Because she believes he's innocent. Hardly co-dependent behavior but rather a high-stakes situation. I would hope my partner would choose to do the same for me if I ever found myself in such a situation, wouldn't you?
As long as he needs me
I know where I must be
I'll cling on steadfastly
As long as he needs me.
AS long as life is long
I'll love him right or wrong
And somehow I'll be strong
As long as he needs me
If you are lonely,
Then you will know
When someone needs you
You love them so.
I won't betray his trust
Though people say I must
I've got to stay true just
As long as he needs me.
Updated On: 9/16/04 at 02:26 PM