"After so much heartache trying to carry a child to term over the last few years,"
First of all, for a public message board, that's a VERY personal way to phrase very personal info. Creepy. But, that's your style.
Secondly, either this is extremely old news or this is a second adoption.
Have I ever shown you my Shattered Dreams box? It's in my Disappointment Closet. - Marge Simpson