Michelle -- Sorry to burst your bubble, but Leo is the director's boyfriend. Does that say anything?
I was hired to musical direct a production for the same director last summer. Putnam, actually. I requested a metronome about fifty times because they couldn't decide on a tempo. The nights were long and ridiculous. I'd teach harmonies a hundred times. And I often found myself playing on an out-of-town, 60 year old piano that was missing two or three octaves. It was something you'd see Colehouse Walker playing.
The director, while a talented performer, knows exactly what she's doing. It's a very self-serving group of people. Just because she's a fan of the piece, however, doesn't mean that the show will be good. I love HAMLET, but I admit that the production I recently directed was far from perfect.
As for their getting Jay Aubrey Jones -- they have contacts. Plain and simple. A lot of us do. Doesn't necessarily mean that contact wants to be there, either. Could just need the work. Could be bored. Could be dying to do 'Parade' somewhere.
The commute to the theater is an easy one. If you plan on going just for the show itself, the commute is really not that awful. It's four stops from Times Square on the N and Q.
"I know now that theatre saved my life." - Susan Stroman