No, it's having my picture taken by someone there specifically to take a picture of me, not letting me know they were there with a hello even, and later on, other people making vague and not-so-vague references on this board about the show and knowing an awful lot about it, including making reference to my "hot niece" who was in the audience. Another member of this board was in attendance, their picture was also taken (the only audience member in the group of photos put up for all to see) and that person is quite a bit less than thrilled as well, having been obviously singled out by someone who knew them, who they didn't know.
THAT, darlin', is stalking. Having a crush on someone and expressing it on a message board, is not.
Have I ever shown you my Shattered Dreams box? It's in my Disappointment Closet. - Marge Simpson