I really enjoyed reading the article, but I'm in the same boat as Kad in that gayness is alive and well, at least within the group I hang out with.
I do think he was a little quick to shove aside some of the gay icons that he feared younger gays might not be able to relate to. When Film Forum showed Johnny Guitar to packed house of mostly gay men, both young and old, everyone appeared to be howling with laughter and I strangely began to feel bounded to the group in the theater very strongly. Maybe some guys in their 20s don't have an affinity for Joan Crawford because they haven't been exposed to her; the teachers that were lost in the 80s ARE being replaced now though, and I don't hear the death knell of gay culture dying ringing anytime soon.
Marie: Don't be in such a hurry about that pretty little chippy in Frisco.
Tony: Eh, she's a no chip!