I just wanted to quickly jump in here to re-address something. No one, myself included, has the ability to read private messages.
They're all nicely and safely encrypted in our database and only able to be de-coded by the sender / recipient. Granted, I programmed much of that functionality, so as with everyone on the Internet, you have to have some degree of trust for those behind the scenes about that facts.
I hope and am confident that no one here should have any real concerns regarding that, and I take any notions to the contrary with *extreme* personal offense.
Now back to your regularly scheduled programming,
Rob
P.S. - I have had a few folks contact me recently about rumors of who's on the moderating team. I can assure you that it's no one who's actively posting and no names that you'd recognize. Rest assured that you're in good and impartial hands.
P.P.S. - As always regarding any site questions, I'm always accessible via email or PM.