Ellie shame on you! that being said, be responsible, dont drink and drive tdont ride with anyone who has been drinking etc.. I used to do it, but my parental units were awesom and always told me if I drank just call them to pick me up..
Jasper this is a little late, but you are not self absorbed.. I know you are very concerned if people know and how they will react.. I cant' say if you are being as you say paranoid or not because I'm not witnessing it.. But I can say that your fear can intensify the perception of different behavior.. You are human after all.. Frankly you shouldn't worry about what they think or what they know.. It's a job.. You are a good person and they will either except you for that or they wont.. Their loss if they act stupid.. You dont need the drama in your life. You are going through enough right now without the added complications of stupid people at work.. That being said I woudl recommend laying low for a few days, try to relax and breathe deep.. Remove yourself fromt he situation, try to see their actions and reactions not from your eyes but from some random onlookers perspective.. Then make the decision if you want to confront your other coworker..
"All work and no smut makes Cammy lose her edge." ~DG
"Someday I'm going to have a baby and I'm gonna name her L'il Mimi Marquez and I and will sing to her every day and when she's a toddler I will say "L'il Mimi Marquez, clad only in a bubble diaper, will perform her famous play pen handcuff dance to the sounds of breast milk being pumped!" ~Kringas
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