How was I supposed to know? You're not the only ones having problems. (PS. Tumbleweeds? Like Mischa?)
Is most of your footwear on the computer or on like a disc or video? If it's on the computer, I'd recommend burning it onto a disc and deleting it stat. As for shielding your father from the evils and sins of BWW and its users, hmm...just say you're typing questions for a public forum for a school assignment?
Anyway, motivators and de-stressors, eh? Well I'm motivated by fear and competition, so that helps a lot. De-stressors...well, if I knew any good ones, I wouldn't be hiding in my proverbial closet smoking. So you best ask someone else about those. (I think a lot of people prefer binge eating, if that helps.)
"It's not always about you!!!" (But if you think I'm referring to you anyway, then I probably am.)
"Good luck returning my ass!" - Wilhemina Slater
"This is my breakfast, lunch and f***ing dinner right here. I'm not even f***in' joking." - Colin Farrell