Ellie, I KNOW! I didn't realize what a sweetie he was until I watched all of his episodes back to back! MAN! He's adorable! And Big isn't even on my radar - well, maybe my grossed-out radar. He's far too smarmy. I never wnated him to get back together with Carrie at the end. It was better when he represented the "toxic bachelor". She should've wound up with Aidan, or alone.
And no, Ellie, HJNTIY. Even if the cheap badly made-up whore got there first, if he was TIY, he would have dumped her to get to you if he wanted you enough. So yeah, HJNTIY. Don't waste the pretty, sweetie. Find someone else. (Or better yet, make up someone better!)
Som, you're right. I think it's because there's a certain few people on here who many of the people on this thread flock to when they're online, so the novelty of seeing the "regulars" is wearing off.

People pounce on fresh blood.
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