Reminds me of the time I saw a lady who use to go to our church at the grocery store.She knew I was gay and said to me,'Just because I think gays are disgusting and they are sexual deviants and are going to burn in hell for living a life of sin does not mean I am homophobic.' She then said she does not judge,it's just common knowledge that's what gays are. My Mom nor I have ever spoken to her again. We see her all the time and just ignore her and she honestly has no clue as to why.
Same with these church goers. They feel their hate and racism is just what it is and justified. They are totally clueless when people call them out as being hateful and racist because to them,they don't think they are.
'There are three sides to every story. My side, your side, and the truth. And no one is lying. Memories shared serve each one differently'
-Robert Evans-