Does Anyone Here Have Worse Luck In Love Than Me?

[Cruel_Sandwich]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 6:29pm

I sincerely doubt it. Anytime I start liking a girl, one of three things happen: a) I find out that she has a boyfriend b) turns out to be a major druggie/alchie or c) simply wasn't what I once thought of her. What the hell is wrong with me? Bah, I know this is like my 10th thread on this subject but...gah...is there something inherently wrong with me or something?

[FindingNamo]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 6:31pm

First off, you're gay.

And second, Captain_Oblivious's succession of partners have all had MUCH worse luck in love than you'll ever have, so cheer up, Bucko.

[Cruel_Sandwich]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 6:36pm

I just find it highly upsetting that there really seems to be noone for me. I don't really possess any qualities that would attract anyone to me. *le sigh*

[SueleenGay]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 6:49pm

I am sure your bright outlook and positive energy will attract the right man someday. Just be patient...stop looking so hard and the angels will provide the love for which you yearn.

[Millie42]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 6:52pm

Look, we all like to have our pity parties every once and a while, but there are many other things in world outside of having a boyfriend/girlfriend.

You seem young so I dont really think you should worry about it-- everyone goes through this.

You'll meet the right person when it's the right time. Don't waste time sulking just because a pretty girl has a boyfriend at the moment.

[Cruel_Sandwich]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 6:52pm

I can't even go gay. All of the gay guys I know are all involved. It's friggin' deppressing.

[Elphaba]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:06pm

those that seek, never find
those that do not.....do

Updated On: 10/18/05 at 07:06 PM

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:21pm

"That's why I say if everybody went to heaven
Hey-ey-ey, I believe I'd miss the call
But you see if it wasn't for bad luck,
Trying to tell you son if it wasn't for bad luck, now now
Oh, oh, I wouldn't have no luck at all
Would you believe I wouldn't have no luck at all"

[Elphaba]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:22pm

cruel...as a gay man, I'd really like to know how one "goes gay"

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:25pm

Elph - according to Cary Grant, you can just go gay 'all of a sudden'

[orangeskittles]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:30pm

"those that seek, never find
those that do not.....do"

From my life experiences so far, I don't buy this.

[Type_A_Tiff]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:31pm

I was dumped by my ex. On our anniversary. In bed. After I paid for dinner.

Now THAT is bad luck.

[SallyBrown]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:34pm

AH! Remember our conversation about this Cruel? When the right one comes along it'll be SO much more special. From what I've heard about you and the girls in your school and what not, you're better off without them. REMEMBER OUR CONVERSATION?? ::I'm the Bravest Individual i have ever meeet.:: REMEMBER I SANG TO YOU!

Anyway
Like I said...it's not like you're the problem. If you really feel like you're having a problem it's probably because of the kind of girl you go for.


Remember though, there is always your stalker..

[SallyBrown]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:36pm

P.s. I was thinking about what I just said about stalkers.

Just imagine:

Rachel Weisz is singing to you, kay?

"If you change your mind. I'm the first in line. Honey I'm still free. Take a chance on me. If you need me, let me know gonna be around. If you've got no place to go when you're feeling down. Take a chance on meee. Take a chance on meee."

See! Rachel loves you!

[JayKid]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:37pm

I'm pretty sure he was joking about going gay, lol.

And don't worry about... as long as you don't fall too hard for anyone, it's not a big deal.

You find out they are like that and just stay away and time away helps you get over them in a short amount of time. Once you get over them, find someone else to like.

Continue the process until something good happens. I am just as unlucky as you, except I am just unlucky with the boyfriend thing. It seems like a reoccurring thing for me, and I even like them before I find out they have a boyfriend many times. It sucks.

It is a bit of bad luck, bu tI suggest just not realyl liking girls. Don't bother with it, just have fun with the rest of your life and don't stress yourself over girls. I feel that works better and if something comes along, it'll come along and take advantage of it. But just don't stress over it...

[Cruel_Sandwich]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:37pm

Indeed I do remember the conversation. But a girl that I had grown obsessed with over the past few weeks turned out to have a boyfriend and this same scenario has played out so many times that I'm just thinking of just giving up.

I just don't really have much to offer anyone. Ahh well.

[SallyBrown]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:38pm

Well there you go..there's nothing wrong with throwing yourself into work. You WILL find someone I promise!!!


Till then..seriously. Don't. Become. Gay. Thanks

[Piazzaslight]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:38pm

Hey, I have never had love, so stop complaining. I have liked a few, but they were just not meant for me. As for the going gay issue, I think that's somewhat impossible. You can't just go gay, you are just born that like that. Listen to that song, "If You were Gay" from Avenue Q. I know all of you will disagree with me, but that's just my point of view.

[SallyBrown]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:39pm

Aww I think he was just kidding about the gay part. He knows very well you dont force yourself to be gay..

AND WHATS THIS ABOUT NOT HAVING ANYTHING TO OFFER A GIRL?? Go to her window and sing "One Song Glory". Cause. You. Singing. That. Gives. Chills.

[Cruel_Sandwich]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:39pm

Do not worry, Sall, I shall not turn gay. I was just joking.

I've always believed that one is born gay.

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:40pm

"I just don't really have much to offer anyone."

You might want to focus on that a little bit - or at least what it's saying about your sense of self - rather than someone else right now.

[SallyBrown]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:40pm

As I thought. You are a rather intelligent person and intelligent people know this.

[Cruel_Sandwich]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:46pm

I think the biggest problem is the fact that my social skills are quite remarkably inept. I'm like the epitome of someone with "book smarts" (Or so I think...) but without common sense.

[SallyBrown]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:50pm

What do you mean? Lord knows you make me laugh and I'm a girl. Didn't you say your humor is an aquired taste? In that case, again, when you DO meet someone it'll just be even better. And more special..

[Cruel_Sandwich]

Posted: 10/18/05 at 7:54pm

Yeah my humor's definitely an aquired taste but I haven't really had any problems making friends by making them laugh. That's one of the few things going for me.