Hmmm...come to think of it, there aren't a lot of gay male movies with actual love scenes...And I can think of many female movies...( The Incredible Adventures of Two Girls in Love, High Art, etc.)
So here is my list:
1. Torch Song Trilogy - it was the first film I ever saw two guys kiss, and that scene in the hay with Brian Kerwin and Matthew Broderick was pretty hot.
2. Stonewall - As much as I love Guillermo Diaz, the wig made a sexy scene unsexy.
3. Love, Valour, and Compassion - You would think the two straight actors kissing this passionately (Justin Kirk and Randy Becker) were actually gay.
4. Angels in America - That Ben Shankman and Patrick Wilson scene when Ben was showing him the ropes...
5. American History X - the rape scene in the bathroom...though the acting was not that great on Norton's part...and it's not really considered "Making Love", but I'm sure it's a fantasy of many gay mens.
Funny, I can't think of anything else.
"Do you know what pledge time is, Andrew"? said the PBS Executive.
"Yes", Lloyd Webber replied. "My 50th birthday special must be one program that gets done a lot."
"No", mused the man from PBS heedlessy. "Not so much. Our Stephen Sondheim Carnegie Hall concert. That's a big one."
Spoons, forks and knives seemed suddenly to suspend their motion in horror, all around the table.