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#26

re: Gay people...

Posted: 6/30/05 at 12:30pm

Try a site like Planet Out...met my partner there 5 years ago. And do not look for a relationship--you will not find it. Date. See where it goes. Don't "fall in love" on the second date. Don't expect perfection. And remember that it's hard for straight men and women too.

Life is complicated, and there is no "one size fits all" relationship. If folks want a 3 way, so what? If people have an open relationship, who cares? Honesty and maturity are what matter.What bothers me is the unsafe sex...sorry, I've had too many friends and one partner die...barebacking=death.

#27

re: Gay people...

Posted: 6/30/05 at 12:33pm

And do not look for a relationship--you will not find it.

so true..so true. i've been guilty of doing this....

#28

re: Gay people...

Posted: 6/30/05 at 12:34pm

ugh...don't even get me started on barebacking...

Why? Why? Why?

#29

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 1:30pm

And oh yeah-- One last thing about looking for a relationship!

As the Pet Shop Boys said so well in "Love Comes Quickly":

"Just when you least expect it, it's just what you least expect!"

#30

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 2:52pm

i also met my partner on the internet. thank god for yahoo personal ads! we emailed, chatted, phoned, and finally met and have been together ever since. (7.5 years and a lifetime commitment.) SO the on-line thing CAN happen

RIP glebby <3

#31

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 4:03pm

It can happen any which way. Usually when you least expect it.

The thing with the internet is not to go to the first 'date' expecting to click right away. I think that's a mistake a lot of people do. I also try to meet during an activity, instead of for coffee or a bar. My best friend and I met by taking the dogs to the dog park. Another friend and I met by going to the Ski Expo. My ex and I spent our first 'date' sitting on a park beach infront of the Puget Sound...

Celebrate Life

Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. - Randy Pausch

#32

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 4:47pm

"The thing with the internet is not to go to the first 'date' expecting to click right away. "

Hehe.
I can't be the only one that loved this pun!!

"My friends have made the story of my life." -Helen Keller

#33

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 5:43pm

Get yourself involved in volunteer activities that gay men might be involved in: community theater, art galleries, garden clubs, and (yes!) church activities.

People who volunteer for worthy causes tend to be of better quality.

"Long live God!" (GODSPELL)

#34

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 5:46pm

Ha ha Millie... didn't even think about it when I typed it. Must be this pesky fever...

Celebrate Life

Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. - Randy Pausch

#35

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 5:58pm

When I was in your age range (18-25)a week was a long term relationship for me. Enjoy life, being a slut is great when you're young, someone sooner or later will "click" and a relationship might bloom. Don't hurry it, you're only young once.

#36

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 8:05pm

lol-me 2!

#37

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 8:10pm

Um...

I met my partner at Starbucks. He made me coffee. His name is Taylor. No lie. We just started talking one day about a year and a half ago, and we're still here, telling Tom Cruise to shut up and go back to being pretty.

"Do you even sleep? Or do you just hang upside down with your eyes closed?"
I'll let you guess.

#38

Looking for Love

Posted: 6/30/05 at 8:15pm

I'm not "looking" anymore, but it's no easier for the women either-especially when you have no desire to sit in a bar....

"I'm mad, you're mad. we're all mad"... The Cheshire Cat

#39

Looking for Love

Posted: 7/1/05 at 10:55am

"When I was in your age range (18-25)a week was a long term relationship for me. Enjoy life, being a slut is great when you're young, someone sooner or later will "click" and a relationship might bloom. Don't hurry it, you're only young once."

Umm..except it wouldn't be fun to get an STD

#40

Looking for Love

Posted: 7/1/05 at 11:15am

Hey! I'm not a slut...I'm just popular!

"For me, THEATRE is an anticipation, an artistic rush, an emotional banquet, a jubilant appreciation, and an exit hopeful of clearer thought and better worlds." ~ an anonymous traveler with Robert Burns

#41

Looking for Love

Posted: 7/1/05 at 1:15pm

stonewall, you are a wonderful person......I enjoy your posts.......and if my damn sister would just make up her mind that she's a lesbian, I'd get you two together in a heartbeat......

but alas, I don't think she'll ever admit it, ir act upon it......sigh.

As she says all the time, I am getting enough for both of us, LOL

It is ridiculous to set a detective story in New York City. New York City is itself a detective story... AGATHA CHRISTIE, Life magazine, May 14, 1956

#42

Looking for Love

Posted: 7/1/05 at 1:29pm

Just when I stopped looking I found.

Celebrate Life

Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. - Randy Pausch

#43

Looking for Love

Posted: 7/1/05 at 4:11pm

I met my man online and it's been 3 years. Of course, we actually started going out after we met in person, instead of having a online-romance.
One must not limit themselves to bars/chatrooms, etc. There are plenty of options.
1. They have plenty of matchmaking websites that aren't chatrooms.
2. Ever consider volunteer work? You can actually meet a lot of nice guys, especially when it deals with volunteeing for anything.

"Do you know what pledge time is, Andrew"? said the PBS Executive. "Yes", Lloyd Webber replied. "My 50th birthday special must be one program that gets done a lot." "No", mused the man from PBS heedlessy. "Not so much. Our Stephen Sondheim Carnegie Hall concert. That's a big one." Spoons, forks and knives seemed suddenly to suspend their motion in horror, all around the table.

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