Was the vacation request ever done in writing? If so, just show her that and say, "Sorry....Beeatch"
My (ex) boss tried that to me one time. I took my weekly vacation to work on a benefit (that I had done for 12 years) and the last year, after getting her approval, she took the same time off, and then tried to have me fired for leaving.
Paperwork is a great thing to fall back on.
(Oh, and if she's reading this, Leanne, you are a total bitch and I hope you choke on your salad)
"TheatreDiva90016 - another good reason to frequent these boards less."<<>>
“I hesitate to give this line of discussion the validation it so desperately craves by perpetuating it, but the light from logic is getting further and further away with your every successive post.” <<>>
-whatever2