Is That You In Your Avatar? Tonight at EIGHT!- Page 118

[wonderfulwizard11]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:31am

Just a little bit, tazzy.

[TheActr97J]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:33am

It was a little bit. I dated a few girls before I came out. Didn't have sex though. lol

I dated a cheerleader back in 11th grade for almost seven months. I had just taken her out to a really fancy dinner and the Josh Groban concert for Valentine's Day. I broke up with her a week later and came out a week after that. So two weeks after my romantic Valentine's Day with my girlfriend... I had a boyfriend.

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:34am

I too had sex with a girl once, and once was enough. I was 17 and she took a liking to me. I figured, what the hell? Get this: We did the deed behind the bushes of a catholic school during its annual summer carnival.

Updated On: 8/2/07 at 12:34 AM

[harris007]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:35am

sigh and tazey again gets less hot

[wonderfulwizard11]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:35am

Lol, Stagey.

[TheActr97J]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:38am

And stagey just got a little bit hotter.

[wonderfulwizard11]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:40am

I dated one girl before realizing I was gay. Then again, I didn't like her too much. Maybe she sped along the process a bit?

[TheActr97J]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:41am

Uh oh... what does that mean?

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:51am

I always knew I was gay. I mean, I was attracted to other boys as far back as I can remember.

[tazber]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:57am

Me too. Even before I understood what it meant, I was attracted to guys. Not even sexually at first, I was too young, but there was that sense of attraction. I suppose straight people are drawn to the opposite sex in a similar way at the earliest age as well.

[TheActr97J]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 12:59am

It was exactly the same for me. I remember being attracted to boys before I even knew what "gay" was.

[wonderfulwizard11]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:00am

I think I was the same way, being attracted to boys in my class when I was young, but it didnt "dawn on me" (for lack of a better term) until recently.

[TheActr97J]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:04am

It was just this feeling I couldn't articulate until it all suddenly became very clear to me when I was 17. I'll never forget the moment I realized what I was. It was like an epiphany.

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:08am

Even as a tyke, I had sexual longings and desires for my little buddies. We'd fool around, too. I guess I've always been a sexual being.

[TheActr97J]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:10am

I never really did any of that. I guess I just never acted on my urges. Maybe that's why all I want to do now is be with guys. lol

[wonderfulwizard11]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:13am

I think it also helps that I go to an all-boys high school. I think that helped me to realize that I was gay.

[tazber]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:14am

It's very natural. People are social animals. We want to be around others that we feel comfortable with. Before you are able to make decisions as to who you want to be around based on someone's personality traits, there is just a sense of wanting to be around the "maleness" or "womanhood" of people.
Does that make any sense at all?

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:14am

Not even a jack-off buddy, Actr? I had three of those in high school. Good times!

[TheActr97J]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:17am

I think so taz.

SM: NO! I sure wish i had!

[wonderfulwizard11]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:19am

I think I get that taz.

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:21am

It was actually my older brother's friend who introduced me to the joy of masturbation. In turn, I taught two of my friends. We never did anything together. As far as I knew, the other three didn't know that I fooled around with anyone else. LOL!

[tazber]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:22am

Without sounding too new-agey I guess it's the male energy that I am referring to.

My older brother is gay and he guided me through the awkward phase. I'm so blessed by that.

[wonderfulwizard11]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:31am

You're very lucky for that taz. It would be wonderful if every gay youth in the country had that sort of guidance.

[StageManager2]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:33am

taz, you've been blessed more than the prophets and kings of yore.

[tazber]

Posted: 8/2/07 at 1:37am