Is That You In Your Avatar? Vol. 14. "Santa Claus Got Stuck In My Chimney!"- Page 37

[iHeartMyGeek]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 10:51am

That may work to your advantage, DGG. No pressure. casual relationship. If that's what you want, of course.

I, on the other hand, am screwed (or not, which is the issue) because my school is all gay guys and all of the straight guys were snapped up by girls while I was still snuggled up to my ex. So I'm longing for graduation just so I can go to college and meet some fresh single guys (who actually have brains, intelligence is my number-one turn-on and idiocy is an absolute dealbreaker for me). Until then...well, I'll have to work with what I got.

Harris, I could really use a cocoa refill over here.

Posted: 12/23/07 at 10:51am

I don't get to have girl talk very often. My two best girl friends broke off and dumped me over the summer, and my other best girl friend is crazy busy all the time with boys and partying and such. I have mostly guy friends, and only one is gay enough to have semi-girl talk with.


It's been a tough year.

[iHeartMyGeek]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 10:52am

DGG, it's odd that yours and my life seem almost identical in a lot of ways.

[Broadway Bound2]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 10:53am

I am am on my 1st cup of tea right now. And Ahhhh it is so soothing. I took a nice hot shower early this morning before Mass, but a nice soak in the tub sounds wonderful. I may just light some scented candles , grab a nice book and soak. Thank You

Posted: 12/23/07 at 10:55am

I've been thinking the same, Geek!

It really has been a crazy year, though. I'm glad I have BWW and medication to keep me somewhat sane!

[Rosalind]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 10:55am

I promise it'll make you feel better. Your throat is probably pretty raw and red, so anything to soothe it and calm it is your best bet.

DGG and Geek: In the end, never settle, right? Make sure that, even if you're just having fun, you feel happy. Because any guy that makes you feel bad, even if he doesn't mean to, probably isn't the right guy. Even for a little while.

[iHeartMyGeek]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 10:57am

Tell me about it. I have been insanely stressed, as I'm sure you all were able to tell (I swear I am not usually as ornery and jaded as I've seemed in the past month). THere's a lot that goes on in your senior year of high school, and i've probably made some stupid decisions that haven't helped, but at least I've got you guys.

[Broadway Bound2]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:02am

Rosalind: I will give it a try. The only thing about drinking that much tea I will be peeing all day.

Geek: I am so sorry. I wish we could all get together and go out clubbing for some fun to release all this stress.

[Rosalind]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:04am

Peeing is good for you!

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:04am

Ditto.


I am still not used to being on the outside of everything. This year, for the first time ever, I've had to meet new people to sit with at lunch, and I have nothing to do on my Friday/Saturday evenings. The two girls I mentioned are together constantly, and they always have plans that, if I'm invited at all, it's because I accidentally found out and they felt bad. Like today...they're watching a movie, and they felt bad and invited me. I pick up the phone to call someone to talk to, and realize I don't have anyone that I can call. It is so weird.

Hmmm...I'm whining way too much. Sorry guys.

[Rosalind]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:06am

DGG, don't be sorry. It isn't whining to talk about something that's bothering you. It's whining to complain about something not worth complaining about. And you've been hurt by these girls; you should talk!

[harris007]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:07am

so how about those florida gators?

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:08am

Thanks, girls.

I'm thinking it will be weird if I accept their invitation today. I'll think about it.



I'm so sick of this!

[Rosalind]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:10am

DGG: Only accept their invitation if you WANT to spend time with them. You call the shots on who you spend time with.

Harris: How 'bout that sky? Talk about blue.

[harris007]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:11am

how bout them cows

[iHeartMyGeek]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:12am

I know exactly what you mean DGG. I had two friends since sixth grade that were practically my sisters--my dad used to say that they were his daughters too. Then in tenth grade they just started drifting into this new crowd of people and I didn't really fit in with that. About a year and a half ago I asked them what they were doing one Friday, the looked at each other and said, "oh, sorry, we're busy" and when I asked about sometime later they said, "We're pretty busy for awhile." I didn't bother to ask again. we just stopped calling each other or really talking at all. They still hang out constantly. Fortunately, I managed to find a new group of friends who are much more accepting of me for who I am. Pretty soon it'll all be a moot point, anyway. Things'll change completely in six months when we graduate. Same for you. Don't feel lonely, you've always got us if nothing else.

[Broadway Bound2]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:13am

We all really need a Girls Night Out to shake off this stress.

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:17am

That's exactly what happened to me, Geek. I've mostly let it be. I was never entirely comfortable around them anyway. I like to be my own person, and when I would do stuff like playing spy in the hall or sing or talk like Shakespeare all day, they'd just look at me funny. I've found other people this year who join in, which is more fun.

The only thing about the girls I'm hanging out with more this year is that they have been bffs since they were born. It's been tough.

Rosalind, I doubt I'll go. I know it'll just be awkward if I do.

[iHeartMyGeek]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:17am

To be completely honest, what I need is a college acceptance letter, a massive chocolate bar and some truly off-the-wall sex.

[Rosalind]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:18am

DGG: And besides, they don't deserve your company if they think they're so high and mighty to invite you out of 'pity'. They'd be lucky to have your company.

[iHeartMyGeek]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:19am

DGG, that was my EXACT problem as well. See, as you could tell from my last post, i'm kind of a...risque person. My two old friends used to look at me like I was an insane, sick person whenever I would talk about sex (which, for one of them, was thoroughly hypocritical but that's a story for another day). And if I did anything off-the-wall or outgoing they'd be really bothered by it. My new friends really get it, and they do the same things. It's made me much more comfortable in my own skin.

[harris007]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:20am

TAZZY


how is rupert? *the cows skate cocoa in family guy over*

[Rosalind]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:21am

Morning Tazber!

[nitsua]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:21am

Good mornin', boys!

And Rosalind, I sent you a really nice PM yesterday. Did you get it?

[tazber]

Posted: 12/23/07 at 11:21am

he's at home resting with Ari. I'm at this symposium bored to tears.
what's new wichoo?