Is this too harsh?- Page 2
Is this too harsh?
#25re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 4:03pmIt's safer this way. She already knows him, doesn't have to go through the song and dance of getting to know the other person, and already knows they're compatible in bed, too.
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#26re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 5:05pmyup bdwaygirl, exactly! It's going to have to stop soon though, after I posted this and looked at it more clearly, you all are totally right, of course.
matthius202
Broadway Star Joined: 2/15/05
#27re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 5:10pmthat list is my ex boyfriend...to a tee.
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#28re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 5:12pm
Mattius, if he really was a skirtchaser who only cares about women for their looks, I can see why he's your "ex" now. 
Liotte, of course we're right! And we're more or less unanimous too! Sure, a FB is great, and useful, and appreciated, but really, it's not hard getting laid - it's hard getting laid with quality.
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#29re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 5:27pmDo canoes float? Well, I suppose they do. Stupid question. sorry.
#30re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 5:30pmI only see this guy every few months, as I live in NYC and he is in Chicago. 8 years of hooking up, and it's just natural now. We don't hang out much outside of the bedroom. Which I definitely prefer.
#31re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 6:00pmSounds like a guy I know...
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Leading Actor Joined: 2/19/05
#33re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/13/05 at 9:23pmSounds like my housemate.
TxTwoStep
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/24/03
#34re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/14/05 at 12:25pm
i'm going to be devil's advocate here. If the sex is that good, and you just hook with him for that on a only semi-periodic basis, why do you care how his apartment/tub reeks in a city you don't even share with him?
i get it that you guys are just f/buds. i admire your honesty about that. But your list sounds like a girlfriend trying to renovate before taking over ownership.
i'd advise just taking control of the hook-ups. If he'll bathe, change into clean skimpies, and join you at your hotel in Chicago or your apartment in NYC (or at the home of another friend you crash with whilst visiting Chicago, if you can't afford the hotel and don't want to expose yourself to his housekeeping), then you will enjoy his one redeeming quality and remain his admittedly boundaried friend.
Otherwise, move on. Don't try to play the poor unevolved peg-for-your-round-holes both ways.
#35re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/14/05 at 3:03pm
Thanks Tx!
I just got an e-mail back from him, his response?
Not bad! That's pretty accurate!
Sad that he agrees with this about himself...
TxTwoStep
Broadway Legend Joined: 5/24/03
#36re: Is this too harsh?
Posted: 4/14/05 at 5:02pm
i'm trying to model myself on Carolyn Hax of syndicated ASK CAROLYN fame. Her columns are great, and help me see patterns in my own life where i try to control others. It's a hard hobby to give up.
P.S. PM me contact info on the peg. Maybe he likes variety, and i don't care about housekeeping that much either. *wink*
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