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Just Curious...#0

Posted: 3/21/04 at 6:27pm

i am just curious to know how one would know if they are gay or not. i mean, i know that i am not, but how do other people know?

this is really weird to post on.

thanks

re: Just Curious...#1

Posted: 3/21/04 at 6:33pm

When you're sexually attracted to the same sex?

(if THAT'S it...)

Actually, I wouldn't know either. *wipes tears* Too young! Updated On: 3/21/04 at 06:33 PM

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re: re: Just Curious...#2

Posted: 3/21/04 at 6:37pm

It can be tricky for some people--some people don't finally realize it until much later in life. Repression/denial can be a funny thing. I have known since I was 4, but denial didn't give way until I was 16. I had a crush on my choir camp counselor and despite two crushes on classmates the year before, it wasn't until this crush that I finally got a clue.

I would say that whoever makes your heart burst--and whoever you fantasize about--is indicative of who you are sexually.


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re: re: re: Just Curious...#3

Posted: 3/21/04 at 6:40pm


break those chains.....with all you posess...
Updated On: 3/21/04 at 06:40 PM

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re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#4

Posted: 3/21/04 at 6:41pm

ah. see, i'm 13, and it's never crossed my mind and i've never been attracted to females, so i've always assumed and i'm still assuming that i'm not gay.

i guess it's food for thought a little.

re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#5

Posted: 3/21/04 at 6:50pm

Don't be worried until you start stockpiling gay lit.

*winces again* re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...

If it hasn't really occured to you, then as of yet, you should be straight. If you meet some gorgeous woman, fall in love with her, etc., think about it.

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re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#6

Posted: 3/21/04 at 6:57pm

lol. alright. haha

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re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#7

Posted: 3/21/04 at 8:13pm

and well, bisexuality can confuse you--especially if that bisexual part is fleeting.


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re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#8

Posted: 3/21/04 at 8:26pm

bisexual part is fleeting? what does that mean?

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Posted: 3/21/04 at 8:42pm

I'll tell you how you know you're gay:

When you steal your sister's Barbie doll and re-make the entire wardrobe.

When you build a tree fort just like all the other boys in the neighborhood, only yours is color coordinated and has a breakfast nook.

When you spend more time getting ready for school than your sister does.

When you buy People magazine when they post their list of eligible bachelors and circle all your choices.

When you are constantly redecorating your room and changing its color scheme.

When you sleep with your GI Joe beside you.

When you pack pate de fois gras in your lunchbox instead of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.

When you stay after school for extra help because Mr. Merrell, your new science teacher is a hottie.

When you collect bubblegum cards because you like to look at the players on them and have no idea what the stats are.

When you go to a baseball game and sit behind home plate because you realize Mike Piazza's buns will be staring you in the face when he crouches in position.

When you can sing the entire score from CANDIDE.

When you have no idea what "measure twice and cut once" means.

When you prefer Patti LuPone to Pamela Anderson.

When you think duct tape is really for ducts.

When you have more shoes in your closet than underpants.

....that's how you'll know you're gay!










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re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#10

Posted: 3/21/04 at 9:15pm

haha. did you make that up or is that an actual list?

lol...Mr. Merrell. hehe

re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#11

Posted: 3/21/04 at 9:27pm

DP, if that list also applies to women, then I'm screwed. re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...

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re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#12

Posted: 3/21/04 at 9:28pm

lol, me too. i TOTALLY agree with this one:

"When you have no idea what "measure twice and cut once" means."

what does that mean?

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re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#13

Posted: 3/21/04 at 9:39pm

lol---funny list, but not conclusive.

when I say bisexuality is fleeting, I mean when it is not the usual, but happens sometimes. I am mostly gay, but believe me--Megan Mullaly, Julianne Moore, and a few others could TOTALLY have me! LOL

And, if I could be a lesbian--I would so go after Ellen!! =)


re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#14

Posted: 3/21/04 at 10:47pm

Dolly, who the hell keeps their underwear in their closet? That's what lingerie drawers are for.

re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: re: Just Curious...#15

Posted: 3/21/04 at 11:11pm

jrb, I wanted to go after Ellen after watching her interpretive dance.

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Posted: 3/21/04 at 11:35pm

Dolly, I'm sure you now can up with several uses for duct tape other than ducts. So versatile.


Rest in peace, Iflitifloat.

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Posted: 3/22/04 at 12:58pm

The list is cute, but only stereotypical. I think there is a big difference between being gay and realizing you are gay. I've been gay all my life, but I don't think I actually fully realized it and admitted it to myself until I was about 16 or 17. For some, it can be very traumatic when they recognize it. For others, it can be extremely liberating. Either way, you will know. When you dream about having sex with one gender constantly and never about the other, you will know.


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oh no....#18

Posted: 3/22/04 at 1:22pm

"[w]hen you dream about having sex with one gender constantly and never about the other, you will know."

does this count for species too?


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re: oh no....#19

Posted: 3/22/04 at 1:24pm

ew!


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re: re: oh no....#20

Posted: 3/22/04 at 2:27pm

lol

re: re: re: oh no....#21

Posted: 3/22/04 at 3:13pm

You'll have to excuse papa, he hasn't been the same since I loaned him my copy of "The Goat: Or, Who is Sylvia?"

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re: re: re: re: oh no....#22

Posted: 3/22/04 at 3:58pm

Time to resurrect the petition to change papalovesmambo to papa outta oink again?


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Updated On: 3/22/04 at 03:58 PM


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