Lincoln would never have classified himself as a 'homosexual' because, in fact, it wasn't a classification open to him (or anyone) during most of the 19th Century.
Which is why I have a BIG problem with calling Lincoln 'gay'. Gay is an identity with political ramifications. In his day, had he engaged in non-missionary style sexual conduct with ANYONE (male or female) he would have been called a 'sodomite'.
Relationships between men during the 19th century are FASCINATING. They were incredibly intimate, the highest form of love there was...higher than love between a woman and a man. But most believed this love should remain pure, free from eros. Not until Walt Whitman began advocating physical expression of love between men in his Calamus poems in Leaves of Grass did the concept of 'homosexuality' begin to take form.
"I'm so looking forward to a time when all the Reagan Democrats are dead."