re: is sending a birthday card considered stalking
If you ever find yourself negotiating your own behavior (Well...if I do this, am I stalker? At least I didn't do what X did...THAT'S stalkerish), it might be best to not send more than a note of appreciation about a performer's performance. Because, frankly, that's what we want to hear about. Every performer is different. Some may like the scrapbooks. I know of one performer who felt a little uncomfortable by it. Whatever you do, always tie it to the performance. That's why we're there. And i...