Need Advice

[luvliza89]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 4:00pm

One of my best friend's boyfriend IMed me a couple days ago asking me if I wanted to get together later that day and...well, frankly he asked if I could provide services for him. I was quite taken aback as you can imagine and figured he was just kidding around in some strange way. Then today he asked me about again in person and even grabbed my ass! Is he just kidding around? Should I go and tell my best friend what's happening? That in actuallity her boyfriend isn't striaght? Whats a guy to do?

Advice?...PLEASE?!

LL
Updated On: 6/8/05 at 04:00 PM

[Unknown User]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 4:01pm

Tell your friend her boyfriend's a loser.

[Jwei123]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 4:04pm

Captain hit that jackpot, luvliza...

[luvliza89]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 4:06pm

Well I do plan on telling her that. But how does one go about it? Hopefully she'll believe me and not think I'm just making it up. Though I can't really see her doing that people react in strange ways.

[Unknown User]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 4:08pm

This happened to some friends of mine in high school. These two girls had been friends ever since 2nd grade, and the boyfriend was hitting on the other girl. The other girl told her friend. her friend didn't believe her. They haven't spoken in like three years.

Tell your friend. If she's your friend, she'll believe you over her boyfriend.

"Boyfriends come and go, but friends are forever"

[CurtainUp]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 7:51pm

Tell her, if she doesn't believe you outright she probably will internally. I'm sorry.

[Beergoggles]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 8:09pm

it's a no win situation! If you don't tell her that her boyfriend has been feeling you up and he does the dirty with someone else, she aint gonna be happy with you. However if she's into this guy she will not appreciate you showing her the fact her boyfriend is a loser. However the latter one will be the better option because she will see sence eventually and appreciate your friendship more..... or she could jsut beleive you and dump the creep.

[jaded_october]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 8:34pm

just tell her what happened. did you save the conversation? if you did, you should show it to her..

but no matter what, you need to tell her. and possibly even confront the guy and ask him what the F*CK he was thinking.

[Beergoggles]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 8:37pm

language young one... you know how picky certain people are!

[Unknown User]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 8:38pm

Sometimes cussing gets the point across.

[AbbaRabbit]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 8:39pm

even if you didn't save the conversation, AIM logs every convo and saves it automatically for 30 days. It should be in a folder somewhere on your computer.

i really don't have any advice to offer, but good luck anyways.

[luvliza89]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 10:55pm

Thanks everyone. I do have the conversation and didn't even think about, so thank you! I'm sure it will help but I'm also sure this is going to be difficult. Wish me luck!

[FindingNamo]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 10:58pm

Totally have sex with him. Are you CRAZY? You could end up taking off with him like Thelma and Louise and beginning The Adventure of a Lifetime!

[luvliza89]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 11:02pm

Well I do love me some Thelma and Louise...but this is 2005 now, you obviously have to update the movie to something like Thelma and Louise Go Cross Country Searching For The Traveling Pants That Defy Gravity. Get me a script of that by midnight and I'll consider you're advice.

[FindingNamo]

Posted: 6/8/05 at 11:32pm

If you tell your best friend she will TOTALLY be in denial and he will tell her you came on to him and she'll end up mad at you. Have sex with him, don't tell her, and nobody will be any the wiser.

He's hot, right?