i gave it a rest a day to see what would happen. And obviously, it's not me alone generating the flame war...i was going to make a catty remark about not being equipped with the real flamers on here, but...oops, did that slip out?
Nothing is ever lost by courtesy. It is the cheapest of the pleasures; costs nothing and conveys much.
-Erastus Wiman
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t9B-ZoS0wvU i understand carping at others is human nature, but this thread really got out of hand, another reason i took a day's breather. i sunk to the level of "ad hominem" attacks as well. To take the advice of one poster's implication here that i was out of perspective.
It worked.
It started cuz on my BD i thought "what would i really like to wish for?" and knowing Leslie's frustration at not making SNL, i admittedly whimsically told her i'd start a petition and so i did. i won't proudly claim the intentions since, but the original one was for fun and maybe to let others know more about her.
Even if no more gets signed, her name on the thread topic got nearly 4K hits in a week. Yep, maybe SNL needs much larger "TVQ" like response than that, but it's more than the zero they would have heard about had i not posted.
So i'm fine with that. And i'm fine with letting this go. But here is one last thing to think about, if you are prone to actually thinking and not just hurling catty remarks.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/11/opinion/11brooks.html?_r=1 i post this last thing because the downside of overconfidence and American "can-do" spirit is solipsism. My own hubris included.
It's my last word on this topic. If the fire keeps burning, so be it.
Will: They don't give out awards for helping people be gay... unless you count the Tonys.
"I guarantee that we'll have tough
times. I guarantee that at some point
one or both of us will want to get out.
But I also guarantee that if I don't
ask you to be mine, I'll regret it for
the rest of my life..."