LISA!!!
I got a wonderful idea from a friend who did this:
Take the photographer into your dressing room
Lay out some makeup infront of one of the mirrors
Turn the hot lights on
Have the photographer stand behind you so you can see a little bit of the back of your head in the shot, but still see you in the mirror
Annddd...smile
kind of like this type deal:
But a little more behind your head and further back, and smiling, not doing makeup, with the pretty lights on :)