*clinks glass in toast to spider*
congratulations - many happy years together....
being married is great - it can also be work....
a suggestion -
read your vows a bazillion times before you take them...
treat them like you would a monolouge (a word i can NEVER F***ING SPELL!)
KNOW EXACTLY WHAT THEY MEAN - and decided within yourself that you are going to do everything humanly possible to live up to them.
IMHO - i don't think people take marriage seriously enough anymore - it's a real, and deeply spiritual committment (another word i can't spell) and remembering your vows can help you make it through the roughest times...
*from the heart of one who deeply loves her husband more than words can ever express...*
"Stupidity should be PAINFUL!" - Cam
"Yeah - painful for the STUPID not the rest of us!"
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