#26
Posted: 2/3/11 at 9:12pm
Uncage, I am very much like you. I live in a communal environment, with people who both don't mind the smell of smoke and with people who can't stand it. If I am in the only lounge here, and I see people who I know for a fact mind the smell of smoke, I don't go into the parking lot and light up without care. Furthermore, if I am not sure, I ask.
When I was in college, there were two groups of people who smoked. One was a group of students, who would do it where they wanted without having any regard for others. I, was alone in a "group" of people who actually was aware that what they were doing and as a result threw the butts away, made sure that if I was walking with somewhere with people who didn't like the smell, or the smoke, that I was a good few feet away from them and behind them. In fact, I found it interesting that one of my good friends that I made at school, who has asthma, called me a "considerate smoker."
To all those that said that smokers aren't considerate of others, you're right. However, it is not fair to say that all smokers don't care about others. There are smokers like uncage and myself, who know that what we are doing is bothersome to others, yet, we do it in a way that tries to be the most considerate of others.
When I was in college, there were two groups of people who smoked. One was a group of students, who would do it where they wanted without having any regard for others. I, was alone in a "group" of people who actually was aware that what they were doing and as a result threw the butts away, made sure that if I was walking with somewhere with people who didn't like the smell, or the smoke, that I was a good few feet away from them and behind them. In fact, I found it interesting that one of my good friends that I made at school, who has asthma, called me a "considerate smoker."
To all those that said that smokers aren't considerate of others, you're right. However, it is not fair to say that all smokers don't care about others. There are smokers like uncage and myself, who know that what we are doing is bothersome to others, yet, we do it in a way that tries to be the most considerate of others.
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