You know, I hate to get involved in crap like this, but since Addy's not here, and probably wouldn't waste her time defending herself to this man anyway, I will.
First of all, it’s people like you, Jose, who’ve created and perpetuated this “pink princess persona,” not Addy. Second, if you can make blanket statements about Cookie and Addy’s relationship being "the joke of BWW", then I can make one of my own. Posts like the ones you’ve written in this thread make you look like a sad, lonely, pathetic little man with way too much time on his hands.
For those of you who haven’t had a chance to get to know Addy, I can assure you that nothing about the woman is a sham. She’s human and imperfect, but she’s also warm, generous, thoughtful and she strives to be extremely sincere in everything that she does.
One of the worst things about this is that I’m sure there was a time when Addy felt truly sorry that Jose’s feelings had been hurt, even though she wasn’t at all responsible.
So, Jose, keep doing crap like this if it makes you happy, but you’re the only one that it reflects poorly on. Her friends know the truth. I’m proud and grateful to call myself one of them, and I don’t give a damn what you and your cronies think about it.
Now, that I’ve said my piece, I think PalJoey’s got the right idea.
Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and serenely and with too high a spirit to be enbered with your old nonsense. ~ Emerson