Actions do have a tendency to make things clear. When they are justified, anyway -- and when the person being defended actually deserves it. In this case, that's completely moot.
A public board is not the place for the lies and defamation that I am experiencing against me right now. Talk all you want (to me or others) over the phone or in person, but, don't stoop to the level of publicly posting bullsh!t that may or may not be correct. Post from experience, but do not post second-hand about matters that do not involve you, and that, as of recently, you have not encountered. I feel sorry for those of you who get a rise out of these types of things.
As for this, I will be the big person and wish you a nice life. The guilty party will get what is coming to him/her, and (s)he knows what his/her wrongs are. He/she can outwardly say whatever he/she wants - but the guilt inside will eat away at him/her. Knowing this is good enough for me... "living well is the best revenge."
Honestly? I appreciate the friends I've made here. But - there are better things waiting for me than posting to old queens, socially awkward people, and overweight people who cannot bring themselves to find means of socialization outside the online community, hiding behind a computer screen. There is Truth, and there is Life, and I love myself enough to owe myself that - without being weighed down by the pointless drama on Broadway World.
I wish the very best for each of you. Even those of you that do not necessarily deserve the best, in any way, shape, or form.
my life is brilliant. my love is pure.