My last boyfriend also lived 45 minutes away and would get annoyed when I didn't feel like going over there at 1am to do nothing.
I don't need a lawyer, thankfully (although I didn't think that at the time) he is no longer my boyfriend.
The next one better pay for me, I think he'd have me roped in if he did. I'd be shocked.
And hang on, when did you win the discus?