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Posted: 12/27/04 at 3:56pm

I just had lunch with an old friend from college and everytime I see this guy (which is not very often) I want to jump on him! We tried the dating thing a long time ago and he was way more into it than I was - I'll just chalk it up to bad timing. Anyway - the point - I am incredibly in love with my girlfriend of three years and there is nothing in our relationship that is lacking - including the physical aspect of things - it is all really amazing. However, when I see this guy (like twice a year) I can't help but think dirty thoughts (he is super yummy). So I guess I have two questions. 1)If you were my girlfriend and I told you this what would your reaction be? 2)If you are gay - have you ever had the hots for someone of the opposite sex?

when you grow up surrounded by willful ignorance you have to believe mercy has its own country and that it's round and borderless ~Animal, Ani Difranco

Updated On: 12/27/04 at 03:56 PM

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 3:59pm

1) You're human. It's natural. Just don't think about him while we're doing it.
2) Paris Hilton. Yes.

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:01pm

Paris Hilton? When I said "had the hots for" I meant like want to rip their clothes off and do it right there and then. Is your answer still yes for Paris Hilton?

when you grow up surrounded by willful ignorance you have to believe mercy has its own country and that it's round and borderless ~Animal, Ani Difranco

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:43pm

Besides my lesbian work out trainer Libby...yes. I'd totally do both of them..

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:46pm

oh my word.

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:46pm

A friend of mine was a lesbian for many years but is now into men. Sexuality is not only fluid, it can be temporal, too.

BlueWizard's blog: The Rambling Corner HEDWIG: "The road is my home. In reflecting upon the people whom I have come upon in my travels, I cannot help but think of the people who have come upon me."

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:48pm

i agree that this reaction is "NORMAL." yes, even us gay people are sometimes smitten with members of the opposite sex.

RIP glebby <3

re: question - Who is on your list?

Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:49pm

maybe I should change the name of this thread...I think I will...here is the new question

Who is on your list of people you would like to get down with anytime - any place?

mine are (just to name a few):
Angelina Jolie
Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt (seriously - how and why do they ever get out of bed?)
Karina Lombard
Justin Timberlake

when you grow up surrounded by willful ignorance you have to believe mercy has its own country and that it's round and borderless ~Animal, Ani Difranco

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:54pm

I'm confused? why didn't you just take him right then and there? then you wouldn't be sitting here wondering...

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 4:58pm

okay wait - even thought I just changed the question - let me respond to some of these posts... I am well aware of the fluidity of sexuality and in reading my initial post I can see how sort of retarded it sounds that I would ask gay people if they have ever been into members of the opposite sex. I really have never claimed any particular label when it comes to sexuality - up until I met my current girlfriend I had mostly dated men. I get that there are no rigid lines - I also assumed that if anyone did respond to my question it would probably be gay men and I was interested in hearing those answers for various reasons. One reason being that it has been my experience with those around me that women are generally more likely to move back and forth along that continuum than men. I was just wondering...and somehow I think I managed to make myself look silly...sorry!

when you grow up surrounded by willful ignorance you have to believe mercy has its own country and that it's round and borderless ~Animal, Ani Difranco

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 5:00pm

CATSNY - actually - i've been there already and know it would be awesome - which probably adds to the tension when I see him now...however - i don't cheat - i would never want to ruin my current relationship

when you grow up surrounded by willful ignorance you have to believe mercy has its own country and that it's round and borderless ~Animal, Ani Difranco

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 5:01pm

you're not silly ... and i think you're right about women being more "adaptable."

i'd like to GET DOWN with this man who is my current avator!

RIP glebby <3

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 5:01pm

it's not cheating if you don't get caught...

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Posted: 12/27/04 at 5:06pm

have you ever been cheated on? My high school sweetheart cheated on me in college with some ugly girl and even though i managed to forgive him - I never forgot it. It is painful and damaging not only to relationships but to an individual's self esteem. I love and respect my sweetie too much to go there and risk losing what we have...That being said - there is something enticing about secrets...

when you grow up surrounded by willful ignorance you have to believe mercy has its own country and that it's round and borderless ~Animal, Ani Difranco

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