Can I jump in here too? I'm currently in the middle of a very painful break up of almost 4 years. We had broke up over the summer and then the beginning of October he begged and begged, sent flowers, tons of emails, sent cards all the stuff he had not done before and like a dummy I took him back. It was great up until last Saturday night, we haven't talked since then and I've decided I don't care what stops he pulls out this time, (if there even is a this time, but given his usual pattern he'll try the same thing in another week or so) anyway I am not giving in. A person can only take so much hurt! I've decided though that no matter what age you are relationships don't change. Needless to say I am very depressed to the point I'm thinking of getting medication, which I try to stay away from. But when one cannot get up of the couch for 2 days straight and cries at everything, I think it's time. Sorry to ramble on, and thanks for listening! Does it get better???? Please tell me it does! I'm going home after work today and throwing every piece of clothing, pictures, anything that is his away. I hate to be childish like that but I can't bare to look at it any longer.
"It's like I'm your lover or more like your ghost. I spend the day wondering what you do where you go"
"A log is like this big around, you're lucky your head didn't fall off, you best get yourself to a hospital....